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HAPPINESS

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What is Happiness? It is a state of being happy.

To be happy,is a feeling or showing pleasure or contentment. Example,buying your dream car,or a pay rise, etcetera.


There are over 7.9 billion people in the world and everyone takes the issue of happiness very serious including new born babies.


Happiness is now sold in many different forms like ,on tapes, podcasts, motivational speakers, markets places,books, ebooks, songs ect. For example you see book titles like, HOW TO BE HAPPY" ........."THINGS YOU NEED TO DO TO KEEP YOU HAPPY" and many others.

About 200 research institutes have been dedicated to study about Happiness and each of them came by different ideas and theories about Happiness. Meaning happiness can't be unified.

HAPPINESS IS SUBJECTIVE:

Some people say too much happiness can lead to unhappiness.Your level of happiness may vary from another person's happiness.That is why you don't have to pick your level of happiness against another.

Don't compare what you have with others and think they're not happy because you do not have the same level of material, resource,or adequacy of something.

Don't ever think someone isn't happy all because they don't have what you have acquired. Happiness again is subjective and a contentment of what one has.

WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR HAPPINESS?

Is it the government, parents,spouses, friends, families,co-workers,Lovers, neighbors and many others we have in our cycle?Or is happiness supposed to be a personal Choice.  Some People think having enough or a lot of money is happiness. Others perhaps thinks traveling around the world and sleeping in luxury homes ,cars and hotels is all that happiness is about.

Others feel, changing their closets every month is Happiness as well as buying all the things you have in your online shopping cart and getting enough money to finish a project.

Have you also considered that a lot of people may be doing all the above mentioned activities and still feel empty or not happy in a way or the other?

Money only becomes a big factor in a long term happiness only if you were struggling to make ends meet and then you happen to make money. Otherwise, money has little to do with sustainable Happiness.


WHAT REALLY MAKES ONE HAPPY?

Happiness as I first mentioned that it is the state of feeling or showing pleasure or contentment. Meaning when a person feels content after getting a new job, increase in salary, promotion, new relationship partner,got married,bought a new car, a new dress,a new pair of shoe, passed an exams, had a successful surgery,safe delivery, receives a package from a friend or family,gets free money, free from mortgage loans and debts, finishes a school project,promoted to a new school or class,got a visa to travel and the list could go and and on.In my opinion, anything that makes you feel content and gives you pleasure is Happiness.

The truth is being happy is something that must be prioritized therefore anything in your life that literally makes you unhappy must not be entertained.

Happiness acquired in things , people and certain kinds of achievement does not and will not stay with us forever. So we must learn to move on and find happiness in many other things in the world instead of always staying in the dark and in the past, punishing ourselves over things that used to make us happy but we lost as we aged or as life went by.

In cases where relationships like family, example child,parent, ect makes you unhappy with their actions or in any other way and you can't cut them off, there is still a way you can find happiness in them. Dwell on their good sides,find peace and happiness in something about them that can turn your mind off a bit of their weaknesses.

It is very important to create a happy environment around yourself. Be the source of happiness for someone today. Be kind and loving to everyone as possible as you can.

Try not to worry too much about things you can't change and make sure to Celebrate and smile wild whenever you are able to come across anything that makes you feel content.Cut down on too many things that frustrates your life and makes you put unnecessary pressure on yourself.

Remember wherever you find yourself now in life is a process and there is always a better day ahead. Be alive and happy in everything and find peace in the things and people that God has blessed you with.


STAY HAPPY,STAY SAFE. 


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